Citizen of the year

Manchester Chamber awards SNHU president

The Greater Manchester Chamber has named Dr. Paul LeBlanc, president and CEO of Southern New Hampshire University, its Citizen of the Year.

Tell us about you and your background.

I was born in Canada in New Brunswick in a small farming village. I actually spoke French before I spoke English. There was really no work there for anyone, so my parents and my four older siblings and I immigrated to the Boston area when I was 3, and I grew up in Waltham, Mass. I went on to be the first member of my extended family to go to college. I think being a first-generation college graduate and an immigrant informs my sense of work and my sense of Manchester so much, because Manchester itself is a city of immigrants and of people who had to work hard and didn’t have anything handed to them. I came to Manchester almost 20 years ago as president of SNHU. Before that, I had spent seven years as the president of Marlboro College in Vermont, and before that, I was heading up a technology startup for Houghton Mifflin Publishing Company in Boston.

What do you consider some of your biggest accomplishments?

I always think of universities as playing an important role as an economic engine. When I came in, we had 2,500 students and were just a small, somewhat dated campus in the north end of Manchester. Today, we’re a national and international university with 185,000 active students, making us the largest university in the country. But we’ve still always been very focused on Manchester as our hometown. … I had this idea for a Center for New Americans, which we’ve created in conjunction with the YWCA, recognizing that Manchester’s history is built on New Americans. It has programs for youth, language programs — a wide array of programming. … During the pandemic, we, with partners, stepped up and took the lead with a number of things, like providing more than 210,000 meals during the first two years to kids who were on school lunch programs who might not have enough food at home; and working with the National Guard, converting the whole of our athletic complex into a spillover health facility for local hospitals. I think these are the things that I’m probably being recognized for as Citizen of the Year, but in reality, I’m accepting this [award] in the spirit of everything that SNHU and all of our people do.

What is your vision for the future of education?

We are often cited as being one of the most innovative universities in the country. That includes not only using online education to extend the reach of SNHU and to reach people who really need a degree to unlock an economic opportunity, but also being pioneers in competency-based education, which untethers people from time and allows them to move much faster. Innovating around delivery models that work better in people’s lives is a really important part of what we do. … We have a national network of community partners that are deeply embedded in underserved communities, and we have something called the GEM program, which stands for “global education movement,” and that brings degree programs to refugees. We’ve worked in refugee camps in Kenya, Malawi and Rwanda, and with refugee communities in South Africa and Lebanon, so we really do have a global reach. Our vision is to continue to try to make higher education more affordable and to put it in the financial reach of learners who are often left out and feel unable to access a system that’s increasingly too expensive for them.

What do you like about Manchester?

Manchester is a working city; it’s got some grit, and, like every city, it’s got real issues, like homelessness. But I love that it has such a strong sense of community and rootedness. … It has an amazing diversity of people in a state that can often feel pretty homogenous, and there’s energy and vibrancy that comes from that heterogeneous population. … Its food scene is burgeoning. … The Millyard is a hotbed of technology and innovation. … People are doing things in the arts community. … Yet it stays very modest. There’s a great self-deprecating humor about New Hampshire and Manchester. No one gets too full of themselves.

What do you like to do in your free time?

I’m lucky enough to be able to do some really interesting travel. I just came back from Antarctica, which was the most amazing travel experience ever. I’ve been to all seven continents and 60-something countries. That’s my passion. Closer to home, it’s things like cooking, reading, writing. I’ve been going back to my writing more lately, which I very much enjoy. I’ve written two books in the last two years.

Featured photo: Paul LeBlanc. Courtesy photo.

On The Job – Jen O’Brien

Medical aesthetics provider

Jen O’Brien is an advanced practice nurse who provides aesthetic injections and skin treatments from her medspa Relevé Medical Aesthetics (Salzburg Square, 292 Route 101, Amherst, 460-5706, relevemedicalaesthetics.com).

Explain your job and what it entails.

People enter my office seeking subtle, natural aesthetic treatments to help reclaim their confidence and feel great. I perform minimally invasive aesthetic treatments like Botox, filler, chemical peels, and platelet-rich plasma procedures. Our consultation process is relaxed and thorough, and most procedures have minimal pain or downtime.

How long have you had this job?

I opened my practice in the fall of 2021. I’ve been a nurse for 17 years and a certified registered nurse anesthetist for 11 years. Before Relevé, I provided anesthesia services at Catholic Medical Center.

What led you to this career field and your current job?

As many women and men have experienced, I lost my sense of self when my kids were little. Learning to love and honor myself has been a challenging yet incredibly rewarding journey. How we feel about what we see in the mirror is only a piece of the puzzle, but I have found great purpose in helping women and men feel confident about their appearance so they can go out and live their most full life.

What kind of education or training did you need?

I received a bachelor of science in nursing degree from the University of Pennsylvania, and a master of science in nursing degree from Boston College. I then sought training in aesthetics at Beautiphi Academy in Michigan and have since continued my education in advanced aesthetics and facial anatomy. Last year I traveled to Switzerland to learn from world-class clinicians in the field.

What is your typical at-work uniform or attire?

Sometimes I wear scrubs, but usually black pants and a fun T-shirt. I love wearing graphic T-shirts that show my personality.

What is the most challenging thing about your work, and how do you deal with it?

Helping my clients develop reasonable expectations for their results can be really delicate. The treatments I offer are generally the least expensive, least downtime and lowest risk, but they will also give the most subtle results at first.

What do you wish you’d known at the beginning of your career?

At first I worried that performing aesthetic procedures would be at odds with my personal values of building others up and loving our imperfect selves, but what I have found is that when we feel good about what we see in the mirror, we bring our best selves to the world around us. I’m a better mom for Botox, and I’m not ashamed to admit it.

What do you wish other people knew about your job?

Just because some people [receive treatments that are] overdone doesn’t mean all treatments will give you bad results. Many, many people receive treatments with Botox and fillers and have beautiful, subtle results.

What was the first job you ever had?

I was a veterinary technician when I was 14. This mostly involved cleaning areas of the office that had never been cleaned before and caring for the daily needs of the pets.

What’s the best piece of work-related advice you’ve ever received?

“Your vibe attracts your tribe.” Be your most authentic self, and the right clients will find you… What you see on my Facebook and Instagram accounts is the real me, so if you’re curious about treatments, check them out to see if I’m a good fit.

Five favorites

Favorite book:
Persuasion by Jane Austen
Favorite movie: Love Actually
Favorite music: I’m eclectic — pop, rock, indie.
Favorite food: Oreo ice cream
Favorite thing about NH: The outdoors — mountains, lakes, beaches.

Featured photo: Jen O’Brien. Courtesy photo.

Crypto mining for charity

Concord software developer discusses his new app

Concord entrepreneur Russ Willey talked about his new company Crypto-Charities and how its software helps nonprofits, organizations and individuals generate passive income from their supporters. Learn more at crypto-charities.org.

What is Crypto-Charities?

It’s a software that users download and install on their Windows-based PC, and essentially what it does is mine digital currency while the computer is active. … [The user] enters a code for the charity of their choice into the application, and all the digital currency that’s collected is sent back to our secure servers. At the end of the month, we [calculate] how much each code has received … and send out checks to all these charities.

How did you come up with it?

I went to UNH in Manchester and studied computer science and networking, but I didn’t graduate. I got into printing and variable data in my career. Back in the ’90s, I [was interested in] the use of distributed computing. … It was easier to collect and analyze data through distributed computing than through one supercomputer. I always kept that idea in my brain. Then, with the advent of digital currency, I thought, this would be a perfect application for distributed computing. … The idea developed over the years, and we went into full development last summer.

Is anyone else doing anything like this?

We’re the only ones in the world. The idea of mining digital currency is not a new thing, but no one else is … mining cryptocurrency for charities … or doing what we’re doing … with our workflow being able to tag that work for each charity using a code system. That’s what we’ve patented. It’s a great thing to be at the forefront of.

Who is using the app?

Anybody can use it. Someone who wants to support a charity can just download the app and run it. There are companies we’re working with that have 100 to 200 computers running, so they just run this app in the background and they’re actually generating income. We’re also starting to work with content creators and streamers; they pick a charity they support and are passively fundraising for that charity when their followers and subscribers download the app and use that content creator’s or streamer’s code.

How much money can it generate?

Through our testing, we’ve found that, on average, [a single computer] will generate between $10 and $30 annually, possibly more depending on the strength of the computer. That doesn’t sound like a lot, but if you get 1,000 supporters who are each [generating] $10 a year, that’s $10,000 a year. Any charity that could get all of its supporters to give $10 a year would be tickled pink — and with the app, the supporter can do that without having to dig into their own pocket.

How can people start using the app to support a charity?

They can go to our website and download and install the application. We have a whole list of charities that we work with, so they just pick a charity and put that charity’s code in. The software will remember that code you’re using, but you can change the code anytime you want to. … Also, if people are involved with a charity or have their own ideas about what charities they’d like to see added to the app, they can reach out to us.

Featured photo: Russ Willey. Courtesy photo.

On The Job – Jessicca Mahoney and Sonia Virgue

Memorial and gravesite caretakers

Jessicca Mahoney and Sonia Virgue are the co-owners of Stone Stylist (see “Stone Stylist” on Facebook, 781-692-5300, stonestylist.nh@gmail.com), a Northwood-based business that provides memorial and gravesite cleaning, maintenance and decorating services throughout southern New Hampshire.

Explain your job and what it entails.

We provide care keeping services to memorial sites and gravesites, and we maintain cleanliness and beautification for eternal resting places in the most respectful manner possible.

How long have you had this job?

We started Stone Stylist on Nov. 1, 2022.

What led you to this career field and your current job?

We wanted to offer respectful maintenance and care for the eternal resting places of loved ones lost. We have seen unmaintained gravestones being left for long periods of time with existing decaying items, and we wanted to offer a more personalized, caring approach.

What kind of education or training did you need for this job?

We have done research and spoken to cemetery professional caretakers on how to care for gravestones.

What is your typical at-work uniform or attire?

We wear casual attire as we are a new company. We are currently working on setting up logo-inspired clothing.

What is the most challenging thing about your work, and how do you deal with it?

Feeling sympathetic to everyone we speak to and hearing the sadness, but we try to help them find peace in that we are there to help and we also care.

What do you wish you had known at the beginning of your career?

How much work it actually takes to start a small business, and how hard it is to advertise for something that is so delicate.

What do you wish other people knew about your job?

It is not just pressure washing — we do not pressure wash ever — and how rewarding it is when you hear that sigh of relief from someone who needed you because they just could not get to the gravesite.

What was the first job you ever had?

Mahoney: I worked at a pizza place when I was 14.

Virgue: I worked as a babysitter.

What is the best piece of work-related advice you have ever received?

If someone is willing to teach you something, take your time to learn it.

Five favorites

Favorite book:
Mahoney: The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. Virgue: The Cabinet of Curiosities by Douglas Preston and Lincoln Child.
Favorite movie: Mahoney: Man on Fire — anything with Denzel Washington. Virgue: Willy Wonka & the Chocolate Factory.
Favorite music: Mahoney: Country and hip-hop. Virgue: Everything.
Favorite food: Mahoney: Chicken alfredo. Virgue: Italian.
Favorite thing about NH: Mahoney: When the foliage changes colors in the fall, because even while something is ending, it can still be beautiful. Virgue: The tranquility of the woods.

Featured photo: Jessicca Mahoney and Sonia Virgue. Courtesy photo.

Card members

Merrimack Cribbage League moves to larger venue

For more than two decades, the Merrimack Cribbage League has provided opportunities for local cribbage enthusiasts to get together and play four-person and partner cribbage. The group, which currently has about 40 members, moved its weekly games to a larger venue last month and is looking for new players to join the fun. Co-organizer Scott Mortimer answered some questions about the card game and the league.

What kind of game is cribbage?

Cribbage is a game that combines both skill and luck, yet requires more skill than other card games. Luck is needed for the cards you are dealt; skill is needed for the cards you discard and the order they are played. All that is needed to play is a deck of cards and a cribbage board with four pegs. The object of the game is to score 121 points before your opponents. Without getting into detail, points are scored two ways: pegging and counting.

How does the new venue accommodate the league?

In January, we moved to the American Legion in Merrimack. The new location will allow us to increase our membership. We now have the capacity to grow well beyond 50 players.

How does a league game night work?

Game night has each team playing 10 games. Games move along efficiently, and each game lasts about 15 minutes. Winning teams for the evening are determined by the total score after completing 10 games.

Describe the atmosphere at a league game night.

We are a casual cribbage league. The word “league” is not meant to be intimidating. There can be a little nervousness starting out, but our newest members will tell you it is a relaxed environment.

What is your membership demographic?

We are a very diverse group. People ages 22 to 92 have played in our league. Teams are made up of family members, friends or random players we pair up. The game has a mass appeal because of the strategy, excitement and the stroke of luck with each hand.

Is the league casual or competitive? Or are there opportunities for both kinds of play?

Can I call it casually competitive? We do award small weekly cash prizes for top-scoring teams, yet it is encouraged to assist opponents when it comes to mentioning missed points when scoring.

Is cribbage growing in popularity?

We like to think so! There are a few leagues in the area, as well as some local microbreweries that have monthly cribbage tournaments. With some practice, cribbage can be a challenging and fun card game for all ages and abilities while having lots of fun playing. Cribbage is an excellent game for grade-school children to learn as it combines simple math, guessing the odds and predicting outcomes. In fact, there is a fifth-grade teacher in the Merrimack School District who teaches cribbage to his students.

Why should cribbage players consider joining a league?

If you are someone who has played in the past with family or friends and you want to get out and meet new people … or if you are someone who plays online or on a smartphone app and you want something a little more challenging, then our league is a good fit.

Merrimack Cribbage League
Who: The league is open to all. Interested players who are unable to commit to a full season or just want to try it out are welcome to play as a substitute. League organizers help to pair up players without partners.
Where: Second floor of the American Legion, 43 Baboosic Lake Road, Merrimack
When: Weekly, on Wednesday, starting around 5 p.m.
Cost: $5 per weekly play, with payouts for top-scoring teams, and a “quarter cup” awarded for any hand that scores zero points.
More info: Find the group on Facebook at facebook.com/merrimackcribbage, or email co-organizer Scott Mortimer at merrimackcribbage@gmail.com.

Featured photo: Scott Mortimer. Courtesy photo.

On The Job – Deb SanSoucie

Halotherapy provider and wellness entrepreneur

Deb SanSoucie is the owner of The Copper Cave, a halotherapy salt cave and wellness sanctuary in Plaistow.

Explain your job and what it entails.

I’m the owner of The Copper Cave, which is a wellness sanctuary featuring an authentic, traditional style Himalayan salt cave, which is used for halotherapy, also known as dry salt therapy. Halotherapy is the process of grinding up pharmaceutical-grade salt with a machine called a halogenerator. The micronized particles of salt are then blown out into the cave in a fine dust. When breathed in, these particles of salt can be therapeutic to your respiratory system, sinuses and skin. The business also has a small shop that includes feel-good wellness products like teas, heat packs, herbal tinctures, handmade bath products and candles, along with some other handcrafted products from local crafters. I also own Rustic Lane Soap and Candle, so many of the bath and candle products in the shop are handmade by me as well.

How long have you had this job?

We opened on Nov. 19, 2022.

What led you to this career field and your current job?

I left the legal field to open this business. I’ve always had a penchant for encouraging people to focus on their self-care and well-being. I attended craft fairs and vendor fairs with my soap business for years and loved the interaction with customers and enjoyed helping people find things that made them feel good. After years in the corporate world, I was ready to live a life filled with more purpose and enjoyed helping people feel better about themselves, whether that be related to their mind or body. I loved that the experience in the salt cave could give people both a boost in their health and also a break from the outside world where their mind could rest.

What kind of education or training did you need?

I joined the Salt Therapy Association and attended seminars to gain knowledge about the benefits of halotherapy.

What is your typical at-work uniform or attire?

My typical attire is comfortable and warm. I tell people who are visiting the cave to dress that way as well since the cave is kept at a cool temperature.

What is the most challenging thing about your work, and how do you deal with it?

The biggest challenge in owning a new business is getting the word out that we’re here. Social media has been a giant boost so far.

What do you wish you’d known at the beginning of your career?

Something I’m learning is that you need patience in growing a new business. One slow day or even a slow week isn’t a failure. Business has ups and downs, and it all evens out in the end. We’re seeing steady progress in growth, but sometimes I have to step back from it to realize it.

What do you wish other people knew about your job?

I want people to know that I genuinely care about their well-being. I hope they leave their experience feeling relaxed or rejuvenated — whatever they need at the moment. I want people to feel as if they’ve stepped into a sanctuary, where they feel safe to take care of their own needs.

What was the first job you ever had?

My first job was at a Hallmark store.

What’s the best piece of work-related advice you’ve ever received?

If you’re successful doing something you don’t love, imagine what you could accomplish doing something you’re passionate about.

Five favorites

Favorite book:
Anything by Joe Dispenza
Favorite movie: The Notebook
Favorite music: Alternative rock or meditation music, depending on what I’m doing.
Favorite food: A good burger and fries
Favorite thing about NH: Camping

Featured photo: Deb SanSoucie. Courtesy photo.

Get going

A new commissioner joins the DOT

Meet the New Hampshire Department of Transportation’s new commissioner, William Cass.

What is your background in transportation?

I graduated from UNH with a degree in civil engineering, and I started right out of UNH working for the New Hampshire Department of Transportation. I’ve worked my whole career here, 37 years. Most of my career track has been through project development. I started out in highway design as an entry-level civil engineer and worked my way up into several management and leadership positions. Ultimately I was the head of the preliminary design section, which was charged at the time with implementing the 10-year plan and starting out those projects. From there I became the chief project manager and then came down to the executive office as assistant director of project development, then director of project development. Most recently, prior to becoming the commissioner, I was the assistant commissioner and chief engineer for the last seven years.

What does your job as commissioner entail?

It’s overseeing all aspects of the department. Right now we’re in some legislative sessions … [because] we have the budget coming out. I spent most of my day today over at the legislature having some introductory meetings with some committees, giving them an overview of the department and what it is and what it is we do. Other than that, it’s handling departmental issues, which could range from personnel matters to project-related issues, to constituent issues or any manner of activities that require a commissioner-level decision.

What would you like to accomplish as commissioner?

I’ve come into this probably with more of an internal focus than an external focus, like focusing on the morale of our workforce and on telling the story of how incredibly talented our people are and how amazingly dedicated they are to what they do.

How would you describe your leadership style?

I view myself as a consensus-builder. I really want to pull people together, build consensus, work collaboratively and use the best of everybody’s abilities. We have some amazingly talented people … with a pretty diverse set of disciplines, whether it be in engineering or operations or traffic signal maintenance or administering federal programs. Giving them the opportunity to shine and do what they do best is really how I approach things. I value everybody’s opinion and perspective on an issue or whatever it is we’re dealing with.

What are some of the biggest challenges you’re up against right now?

We have a lot of challenges, as a lot of other agencies do right now, with workforce development. We’re dealing with some historic vacancy rates and having a lot of trouble recruiting and retaining trained workforce. The other thing that kind of goes hand in hand with that is inflation, both in terms of construction projects as well as in our own materials that we buy, [such as] road salt, gasoline and diesel fuel. All of those have been [subject to] supply chain issues and the overall impacts of inflation.

What do you find rewarding about this work?

The biggest reward is being in public service … and being able to accomplish things and see projects get completed. Being able to drive over that bridge that we’ve replaced and having been a part of making that happen is really rewarding.

What would you like people to know about the department?

How hard-working and dedicated and committed everybody here at the department is, and the care that we take to do a good job for the people of New Hampshire. When we have storms, there are people working around the clock on winter maintenance. If it snows all night, they are out there all night. I don’t know if everybody realizes that. So, if you’re reading this, next time you pass a snow plow, give them a thumbs up or something and let them know that you appreciate them, and remember that we are working with a reduced workforce, so please be patient with us.

Featured photo: William Cass. Courtesy photo.

On The Job – Krystyl Jenkins

Certified paralegal, professional of HR and mediator

Krystyl Jenkins owns her own business, Paralegal Solutions, based in Derry, in which she provides services as a certified paralegal, certified professional of HR, trained mediator and online business manager to clients throughout New Hampshire.

Explain your job and what it entails.

I’m a jack of all trades. … I help individuals start up or expand their own business or nonprofit, and I assist them with translating legalese and navigating the legal process. While I’m not an attorney and cannot give legal advice, I can help them fill out the basic forms and understand the general legal process for most types of legal cases. For small businesses, I could be handling their social media, monthly newsletters or blog posts or assisting with HR matters as needed, which could include drafting or updating employee handbooks and training manuals and such. For attorneys, I generally handle document drafting, filing and other general paralegal tasks. As a mediator, I assist parties in coming to a resolution of the issue that brought them to me — or at least we try to come to a resolution.

How long have you had this job?

I’ve been a certified paralegal since 2008 and a certified professional of HR and mediator since 2020.

What led you to this career field and your current job?

I kind of fell into it. When I was just a paralegal, I had been assisting friends and family in navigating the legal system and translating legalese for a while, and I realized I could do more than that. I set up Paralegal Solutions in 2018, but didn’t really do much with it until 2020 when I had a friend ask me to help them start a business. Then, someone else wanted to expand their business into another state, and after that I helped a client start a nonprofit and receive their IRS 501(c)(3) certification.

What kind of education or training did you need?

I started with a B.S. in equine science and then gained a B.S. in paralegal studies. Along the way, I gained a Professional of HR certification and completed mediator training. I have 15 years of experience as a certified paralegal and running offices.

What is your typical at-work uniform or attire?

If I’m just working at home, I’m dressed pretty casual. If I’m meeting a client in person, I’ll aim for business casual.

What do you wish you’d known at the beginning of your career?

That nothing is ever locked into stone, and the road is never flat.

What do you wish other people knew about your job?

Communication is key.

What was the first job you ever had?

My first job was probably babysitting. I remember taking the American Red Cross babysitting course and then babysitting neighborhood children. That expanded when I began doing a paper route in the neighborhood.

What’s the best piece of work-related advice you’ve ever received?

Never stop learning.

Five favorites

Favorite book:
in Death series by J.D. Robb
Favorite movie: There are way too many to choose from.
Favorite music: I’m pretty partial to Halestorm.
Favorite food: Pizza
Favorite thing about NH: New Hampshire has a little bit of everything.

Featured photo: Krystyl Jenkins. Courtesy photo.

The pep talk pod

Luna Smith wants to bring positivity to your day

Luna Smith of Londonderry talked about her new podcast, The Friend In Your Ear Pod, launched Jan. 11, with new episodes released every Wednesday. Find the podcast on all major podcast platforms or visit thefriendinyourearpod.com.

Tell us about you.

I’ve been married to my best friend for over a decade now, and we are parents to a 4-year-old boy and a 6-year-old Boston Terrier. I went to school for Classics but ended up in the creative realm working freelance from home. I’ve been obsessed with self-improvement for as long as I can remember. In my pregnancy I started a blog called “That Blissful Balance,” ignorantly thinking I had figured it out, only to discover postpartum that balance is not what I thought it was. Since starting the podcast I’ve restarted the blog to be more in line with the podcast — less about a perfect balance and more about all the tips and tools that make life a little more blissful, coming from the perspective of a recovering perfectionist with high-functioning anxiety who believes even the smallest changes can make major impacts on the quality of our lives.

What made you want to start a podcast?

I’m a huge fan of podcasts and listen to them daily in the pockets of time I have between drop-offs and pickups, housework and work deadlines. But sometimes I would just want to listen to something that was more personable and uplifting, like a pep talk from a friend on a particularly hard day, and I thought that if I felt that way, perhaps others did, too. So that was the inspiration to create a podcast that did that — a podcast that felt like a friend giving you a hug from afar and telling you you could do it; a friend to give you company, positivity and to help you believe in yourself when you need it.

What is The Friend In Your Ear Pod about?

It’s mainly a self-improvement and positivity podcast, currently in a season of wellness, both mental and physical, and each week is on a different topic. They mostly feel like motivational pep talks with some personal experiences sprinkled in. There’s a new segment called ‘Good News’ to celebrate listeners’ wins, because celebrating small wins makes a big difference. I also do a mantra of the week to further help with cultivating and keeping that positive mindset. But it’s all done in a friendly, encouraging way, like a friend giving you a little boost of positivity with a dose of understanding and empathy.

Who is your target audience?

I wanted to create an accessible space for anyone who could use a little boost of positivity and friendly support in their lives, but being familiar with the struggles of women and mothers in particular, that is who I’d like to offer the most support to with the topics I choose to discuss. Though some challenges are universal, I hope everyone can gain something positive from listening.

Where do you get your material?

Right now the material is mostly derived from my own personal experiences in self-improvement and wellness, though some topics are inspired by friends, and reader submissions are always welcome. I would love to provide friendly support in any way I can.

What are your future plans?

I would love to grow and expand in any way I can to provide these friendly pep talks to as many people who need them. Eventually I would love to bring on guests who can provide more expertise on particular topics, but for now it’s just my voice and experiences from things I’ve been able to accomplish and overcome through the power of positive thinking, like letting go of perfectionism and navigating anxiety to achieve goals and create a life I love.

What would you like listeners to get out of your podcast?

I want listeners to feel seen and supported in whatever they’re going through — to feel like they aren’t alone, and to get the motivation they need to make every day a little better, because every little win counts. I hope together we can create a community that celebrates and supports each other.

Featured photo: Luna Smith. Courtesy photo.

On The Job – Shelly A. Mead

Justice of the Peace

Shelly A. Mead is a justice of the peace who officiates weddings throughout southern New Hampshire.

Explain your job and what it entails.

My job is to write and officiate wedding ceremonies for any mutually consenting couple in New Hampshire. I am able to perform quick legal ceremonies, but I specialize in creating love story ceremonies for couples. This involves really getting to know a couple and having them open up about what makes their relationship work, what they love about each other and their favorite memories together. I translate those details into a ceremony that I perform on their wedding day. My ultimate goals are to make the ceremony planning process feel simple and straightforward for couples, and to create a relationship that allows them to feel as calm and confident as humanly possible when standing up in front of their family and friends on their wedding day.

How long have you had this job?

Six years.

What led you to this career field and your current job?

I officiated for the first time in 2017 for my brother-in-law with the intention of never officiating again. As it turned out, creating and officiating ceremonies is extremely joyful and rewarding work. Since then, I have officiated over 350 ceremonies, and 2023 will be my sixth wedding season.

What kind of education or training did you need?

To become a justice of the peace in New Hampshire, one must take an oath and then be certified by the governor. Much of my training was through extensive online research, and then on the job. I love learning from other officiants and have great local mentors. I get really excited when a couple brings up a new idea or tradition to research that can be incorporated into their ceremony.

What is your typical at-work uniform or attire?

I typically wear a black or navy dress or suit, depending on the couple’s wedding colors.

How has your job changed over the course of the pandemic?

This past wedding season was incredibly busy as so many couples had to put off their big wedding from 2020 to 2022. I often officiate for couples who want to have a quick legal ceremony and then plan to celebrate with a formal wedding when there are fewer Covid restrictions or more open wedding dates. I think for a justice of the peace it is not that common to have repeat customers. With couples having a private elopement and then a big ceremony later, I sometimes get the honor of sharing their happiness twice.

What do you wish you’d known at the beginning of your career?

It is so important to set boundaries with clients. Having a detailed contract to establish ground rules is key.

What do you wish other people knew about your job?

Something that not many people realize is that planning a beautiful and meaningful ceremony takes time — a lot of time. If you go to a wedding and the ceremony is executed flawlessly, with the couple and their guests sharing laughter, joy and maybe even some happy tears, know that years of experience and hours of time went into making that 15 to 30 minutes so completely perfect.

What was the first job you ever had?

I worked as a page at the Manchester Public Library in Manchester, Connecticut.

What’s the best piece of work-related advice you’ve ever received?

Always take a deep breath and smile at the beginning of a ceremony. It helps the couple to relax.

Five favorites

Favorite book:
Beartown series by Fredrik Backman
Favorite movie: Stranger Than Fiction
Favorite music: I always sing in the car to get warmed up for a ceremony. Currently, Lizzo and Adele are my top choices.
Favorite food: Cherries
Favorite thing about NH: I love that we can be in a city, the beach or the mountains all in just an hour. New Hampshire has it all.

Featured photo: Shelly A. Mead. Courtesy photo.

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