Derry woman brings her Ukrainian family to NH
Nataliya Androsovych, a Ukrainian-American living in Derry, shared her story of bringing her mother, Olga, and 9-year-old nephew, Lev, who had fled from Ukraine, to safety in New Hampshire. For information on a local effort to help the people of Ukraine, visit dobroinc.org.
What is your connection to Ukraine?
I was born in Ukraine, went to school and university there and got married. My first child was born in Ukraine. I come there every other year as we still have family and friends there.
At what point did you decide to go overseas to get your mother and nephew?
When [the war] started, I wasn’t able to eat, drink, sleep — I wasn’t even functioning. I was worried about my mother being alone as my brother, a former military officer, might be taken back to the army. … Though [where they lived in Ukraine] was not that bad compared to the other part of the country, it is nice to give them some peace from the air raids. I can’t even imagine how difficult it is to go and hide every time when needed. They lived on the third floor, and at some point, she just gave up going down to a hiding place, which was a cold basement. They [started] just hiding between the walls in the entryway of their apartment. My nephew could not sleep for a month and would wake up every night screaming that they needed to hide. … I asked them to leave as I knew that I [could] come and get them and bring [then] here. [Bringing] them here would give everyone relief and peace of mind.
How did you manage to get them out of Ukraine?
I told my mom and nephew to leave Ukraine in March. They went to Poland. … [They] walked for five hours in the cold to cross the border. … Then, [they spent] a couple days there in a refugee facility with 100 other people. … Then, they were picked up by my friend, [who] brought them to Germany … where they stayed with three other families. I was able to find people in Stockholm who helped to accommodate them there. After [they spent] three weeks there, I moved my mom and nephew to Sweden … where I went to pick them up. However, it wasn’t that easy to bring them here to the U.S. without a visa.
How does it feel having them here now?
I’m so happy to have mom and nephew here with me. … Here, they are safe and don’t need to worry about getting food [and shelter]. … I admire my mom for her strength as she went above and beyond to save her grandchild.
Are you involved in any efforts in New Hampshire to help the people of Ukraine?
I’m closely working with a nonprofit organization [called] Dobro. It was started by my friends. We are doing Ukrainian fairs, collecting clothes, and I’m personally knocking [on] every door asking people for donations. [This] money [is] used to buy medicine, ammunition and give all necessary help directly [to people in Ukraine], bypassing huge organizations. My friends who are at the front lines fighting need basic T shirts, boots, tactical gloves [and] military first aid. With Dobro, all that is bought and delivered with the help of trusted people in Poland, Romania, Moldova and Ukraine. This way, we save [on] shipping costs.
The following questions were asked of Nataliya’s mother, Olga, with her answers translated from Ukrainian to English by Nataliya.
What went through your mind when you heard your daughter wanted to come bring you to New Hampshire?
I was happy. It is very hard to be alone in a foreign country without [knowing the] language and [having] family around. I knew we would be welcome at my daughter’s house and could relax and enjoy time together with her family.
What has it been like for you so far, living in New Hampshire? How are you adjusting?
No matter how wonderful it is here, I miss my home a lot. It is still hard to be [somewhere] without [knowing the] language. But my daughter is trying everything possible to make it easier for us. We go to the beach every weekend. We go sightseeing, to the zoo and to the lake.
What would you like people here in New Hampshire to know about what’s going on in Ukraine?
It is important to know the truth about what’s going on in Ukraine. Don’t believe what Russian media [says] about Ukraine. It’s a true war there … [with] innocent lives taken away. There are lots of people who suffer as they lost their loved ones, their houses — everything. War is a very scary thing, and it is important that everyone understands that and continues to protect peace. Life, health and family are the most precious things we could have. Please be kind to each other.
Do you plan to go back?
Yes, we are planning to go back. My son is there, and my grandson misses his dad and school friends. Because we came on a visa, we won’t be able to make sure that my grandson goes to school [here]. Hopefully things work out there for us. However, if anything changes, we will go back to the U.S.
Featured photo: Nataliya Androsovych, left, with her mother, Olga, right. Courtesy photo.