First-timers gather for Not Afraid to Fail Fest
By Michael Witthaus
mwitthaus@hippopress.com
Stepping out of one’s comfort zone to try something new is daunting, often frightening. However, at the upcoming Not Afraid to Fail Fest, it’s the whole point. Hosted by Manchester-based Queerlective, it’s billed as “a celebration of queer expression, risk-taking, and community care,” and a reflection of the nonprofit’s core values.
Among the first-time performers on stage Oct. 24 at BNH Stage in Concord are Ann Kinne, a farmer, woodworker and slam poet who will sing and play guitar, and Alysa Hemcher, who works by day as an operations director for a regional nonprofit and plans to cross standup comedy from her bucket list.
A pair of spoken word artists will try to up their game. Avery Bondra left the stage a decade ago, but they’re back to share some poems “that capture the essence of love and vulnerability,” according to a press release. Cory MacEachern has done open mics before but plans a much more personal performance that addresses the death of her brother last winter.
Both Cecilia Kiely and Star are taking the stage for the first-ever time. Star, who works in special education, will perform the Ethel Cain song “Janie” and accompany herself on guitar. Kiely is an aspiring writer who hasn’t revealed what she will share for her debut, but promises “a unique blend of humor and heart.”
The comedy-packed night continues with Michelle Rebidue, who mixes standup and animated storytelling for an act called Life In a NutChelle. Kelso & Aoife are a married couple with a skit that begins with an attempted handshake and devolves into a chaotic stew of awkwardness. Jay Galloway’s standup set will focus on being a New Hampshire newcomer.
The bold cast is rounded out by two members of the Queerlective working board. Jason DeYoung coordinates large events for the organization. A member of the New Hampshire Gay Men’s Chorus, he will step into the spotlight to sing “Who’d I Be,” one of his favorites from Shrek The Musical.
Executive Director Randall Nielsen doesn’t have a performing slot, but is making his debut in another way. “Somebody asked about me having my own thing, and I’ve never emceed an event,” he said in an interview that included DeYoung recently, adding, “and Queerlective has never put on an event like this before.”
The spark for the effort came from strategic planning sessions last January. They discussed ways to reflect the boldness that was required to form an organization in 2022. “Not being afraid to fail was very key to us, starting from scratch and not knowing anything about nonprofits,” DeYoung said.
Nielsen spoke of his interest in using art as a tool for community building.
“I just had too many ideas, so I thought, ‘let’s just let people bring their own ideas as well.’ If you’ve ever wanted to try something, or need a reason to learn a new skill, that’s kind of what we were thinking of as well when we were putting this together.”
A call for participants went out, and all who applied will perform in the show.
“That’s a goal for this project, along with encouraging the community to be more adventurous,” Nielsen said. “We see a lot of hesitation and anxiety from people just to even go out and attend an event, let alone to put together something on their own.”
In late September, everyone attended a workshop led by a local clown to work on stage presence and getting comfortable in performing a show that Nielsen described in a Facebook post as “part open mic, part talent show, part joyful mess and one hundred percent about showing up with courage, creativity and the community behind you.”
To that end, guidelines will be spelled out when the show commences to foster an environment of encouragement and support for performers who are taking a big risk.
“That’s one of the big things,” Nielsen said. “No matter what happens, we’re clapping, we’re cheering, we’re supporting these people. If they mess up, it’s OK. We’re all going to mess up at one point or another. That’s life.”
Not Afraid to Fail Fest
When: Friday, Oct. 24, 7 p.m.
Where: BNH Stage, 16 S. Main St., Concord
Tickets: $18 at ccanh.com
