News & Notes 24/02/29

Mistaken identity

Dartmouth Health said in a statement on Feb. 24 that a local doctor has received threats of violence and false accusations of racism due to a misidentification of a man in a video clip that went viral on TikTok. In the video, a man uses a racial slur against a woman of color, the statement said. Andrew R. Spector, a Dartmouth Health clinician, was falsely accused of being the man in the video, the statement said. Spector “is being erroneously connected with a video on the TikTok platform involving hateful conduct by an individual who may have the same or a similar name. Dr. Spector is not the individual in the video, nor does he or his family have any connection to the person being filmed whatsoever,” according to Spector’s Dartmouth profile page. “Dartmouth Health stands united in defending Spector’s reputation and shedding light on the very real dangers of spreading misinformation, and we express our concern for the woman and any trauma she may have experienced as a result of the incident,” according to the Feb. 24 statement.

“My family and I are receiving threatening messages as a result of me being falsely identified as the man in the video. While I can appreciate that people rallied to support the woman who was targeted with vile, deeply hateful words and actions, the repercussions of spreading false accusations have been devastating to deal with, both personally and professionally,” Spector said in the statement.

“Dartmouth Health calls upon social media platforms, such as TikTok, and users alike to exercise greater responsibility in curbing the spread of misinformation,” the statement said.

Moose Plate grants

The New Hampshire. Department of Natural & Cultural Resources has opened the grant round for projects that “support the restoration, preservation and/or conservation of publicly owned items significant to New Hampshire’s cultural heritage,” according to a press release. The Department’s State Council on the Arts, Division of Historical Resources and State Library oversee three Moose Plate grant programs, which applicants can apply to (only one program in a given year) in a process that starts with a letter of intent that includes a brief description of the project and confirmation that the resource is publicly owned, the release said. Letters must be submitted by May 3. See dncr.nh.gov/about-us/moose-plate-program. For more on the Moose Plate program, including how to purchase a Moose Plate (the New Hampshire license plate featuring a moose), see mooseplate.com.

Invasive plants

The Milford Garden Club will have a program on “Understanding Invasive Plants” with Donna Lussier, UNH Cooperative Extension Master Gardener, on Monday, March 11, at 10:30 a.m. at First Congregational Church Parish House (10 Union St. in Milford). Learn about what differentiates an invasive species from a native species and the concerns surrounding these plants as well as practical control strategies, according to a press release. See milfordnhgardenclub.org.

Butterfly data

New Hampshire Audubon is partnering with New Hampshire Fish and Game to collect data on butterflies in the Concord region and beyond and they are hosting a six-part series of webinars offering butterfly ID trainings in March and April, according to the NH Audubon newsletter. The sessions are Wednesdays, March 6, through April 10, at 6:30 p.m. and will feature butterfly experts from across the state, the newsletter said. Learn about future field days in New Hampshire, including the July Butterfly Count, when your identification knowledge and results will help collect data about the overall population, according to nhaudubon.org, where you can register for the sessions.

Attn: poets

The John Hay Poetry Writing Contest, founded by poet Dianalee Velie of Newbury, is accepting unpublished poems on the theme “The Beauty of New Hampshire,” according to a press release from the Center for the Arts. Send two copies of one original poem (with one copy including the name, address, telephone number and email address and the other copy including no identifying information) to Dianalee Velie, PO Box 290, Newbury, NH, 03255, by Thursday, March 14. There will be prizes awarded for first, second and third place in the adult category and one prize each for high school, middle school and elementary school, the release said. Winners will be invited to read their poems at a Center for the Arts First Friday event celebrating poetry on Friday, April 5, from 5:30 to 7:30 p.m. at the Newbury Library, the release said. See centerfortheartsnh.org/family-fest.

PILLAR Gallery & Projects in Concord is currently showcasing its third exhibition, “Excavations,” through March 22. The show “presents themes of geological time and forms…. Artists include Jonathan Mess, Julie Hamel, Shino Takeda, Debra Claffey, Cody Tamaian, Anne Kinne, Victoria Elbroch and Al Jaeger,” according to a press release. The gallery is open Sunday, Tuesdays and Fridays 3 to 7 p.m.; see pillargalleryprojects.com.

Robot Dreams, the hard-to-find nominee for Best Animated Feature at this year’s Academy Awards, will get a rare pre-Oscar screening on Wednesday, March 6, at 6:45 p.m. at Red River Theatres in Concord. According to IMDb, the movie is slated for theatrical release in May. See redrivertheatres.org.

Musician, educator and cartoonist Marek Bennett, will present “Rally Round the Flag: The American Civil War Through Folksong” on Thursday, Feb. 29, at 7 p.m. at the Pembroke Public Library (313 Pembroke St.), according to a press release. He will also conduct an all-ages Comics Workshop at 5 p.m.; his works include the graphic novel series The Civil War Diary of Freeman Colby, the release said. The event is free and open to the public.

The New Hampshire Boat Museum in Wolfeboro will host a NH Marine Patrol Boat Certificate Class on Saturday, March 9, and Sunday, March 23, from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m., for ages 16 and older and covering topics including boat navigation, boat safety equipment, invasive aquatic species and laws and rules, according to a press release, which also said anyone on New Hampshire waters age 16 or older operating a motorboat with more than 25 horsepower must have a valid boating education certificate. The cost is $40. See nhbm.org/boatcertificate.

Stockbridge Theatre in Derry will present 360 ALLSTARS, an Australian “urban circus complete with dancing, beat boxing, acrobatics, BMX biking and more,” on Sunday, March 10, at 7 p.m. Tickets cost $30 to $35; see stockbridgetheatre.showare.com.

Summer of Adventure – 02/22/29

Summer is here! OK, not the actual season but if you have kids the planning for summer is happening, with many camps about to register or already registering kids for offerings June through August. Know of a camp not listed in our guide? Let us know at [email protected].

Also on the cover Last! Chance! To! Vote! When February is over, voting is over in the Best of 2024 readers’ poll. Vote now at hippopress.com.

It’s a big weekend for theater: The Prom opens at the Palace Theatre (see the item on page 7). Cue Zero Theatre Co. takes on the Lizzie Borden story in Blood Relations (see Michael Witthaus’ story on page 28). And the Milford Area Players present The Last Days of Judas Iscariot (see the item on page 29).

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Fresh from the snowy farm – 02/22/24

Farmers markets aren’t just for summer. A few area towns take their markets indoors for the winter, offering an opportunity to keep in touch with farmers, cheesemakers, bakers and other local food purveyors even in the snowy season.

Also on the cover Vote! Vote today, right now even, in Hippo’s Best of 2024! Find the survey, which asks about all flavors of local amusement, on hippopress.com.

Also, it’s the season of Thin Mints and Samoas. Find out where to get those boxes of Girl Scout cookies and what flavors are available on page 24.

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MILF Life Crisis explores life after divorce

Life keeps handing Anne Marie Scheffler one-woman shows. In her early 30s she did Not Getting It, a sendup of the dating scene. With marriage and kids came Suddenly Mommy! Scheffler’s recent divorce produced MILF Life Crisis, which arrives at Bank of NH Stage in Concord on Feb. 24.

In the new show, Scheffler and several of her alter egos explore re-entering a social fray made even more baffling by dating apps and age. Ultimately, though, it’s a celebration of the new freedom her new life offers. Flipping the acronym to (M)others are (I)ncredible, (L)ovely and (F)antastic, a derogatory fetish term is recast as a way to see female 40-something singlehood through a hopeful lens.

“We’re gonna make it fun and sexy, we’re gonna put on our leopard print,” Scheffler said in a recent phone interview. “You guys, just don’t worry about yourself, because we’ve got it covered.” It’s a powerful response to the idea that ending a marriage at a certain age is a death sentence.

“It could be the end of the world, but what if we decide it’s not?” Scheffler continued. “What if we decide we’re like George Clooney, and we only get better with age? This is the best time to be single because your kids are out … when you’re dating and you don’t have some part of your brain that’s like, ‘must procreate, must procreate’ — that’s really freeing.”

She’s egged on by fictional friend Kendra, whose airy attitude toward relationships aligns with Sam Malone from the ’80s sitcom Cheers; “let’s just go to bed, we don’t need a relationship” is her credo. Other characters in her journey from marriage to divorce to dating are friends offering sympathy and encouragement. Even her ex-husband appears, with his identity shrouded — apparently, he knew what marrying a comedian might portend.

“In our divorce agreement,” Scheffler said, “it’s literally in the legal document that I’m not allowed to use his real name.”

While MILF Life Crisis isn’t a show that Scheffler wanted or expected to make, she has a natural talent for mining laughs from her adversity.

“We can either be oppressed and sad, or laugh at it, shine the light in the dark corners and point out the silliness,” she said. “One of my strengths is I don’t put other people down; my comedy is very self-reflective, making fun of myself. What am I doing in my life that’s ridiculous? There’s a strength to making fun of what you’re supposed to take seriously.”

Scheffler always knew she would be a performer, but originally had her sights on being a serious actress. However, fate intervened.

“I went to theater school thinking I was going to be the next Meryl Streep, thinking, ‘I cry all the time, I’m sure I’ll be dramatic,’” she said. “I ended up being told, or it was very clear to the world, that I was good at comedy.”

She trained and toured with Second City and studied at the now-defunct Theater Resource Center. She also learned the mask-based style of clown technique created by Richard Pochinko, and studied with Phillippe Gaulier, who also taught Sacha Baron Cohen; Gaulier told her she was bound for great things.

“I thought that was probably a good sign,” Scheffler said. “With Second City, improv, the ability to write my own material and the Pochinko clowning, life is the best when I’m laughing.”

It’s led to a steady stream of success, despite the curveballs.

“I thought Suddenly Mommy! was going to be the thing that got me my TV series and put me on the map, but sadly, I got divorced; then my manager was like, everybody wants to know what your next show is,” she said, adding that she has a follow-up in the works called MILF & Cookies. “Who knew that I was going to be the poster child for divorce? I didn’t want that particularly… you wake up in your early 40s and you’re like, ‘I’m supposed to be married forever; now I have to start dating again?’”

MILF Life Crisis
When: Saturday, Feb. 24, 8 p.m.
Where: Bank of NH Stage, 16 S. Main St., Concord
Tickets: $43.75 at ccanh.com

Featured photo: Anne Marie Scheffler. Courtesy photo.

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